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7 Ways To Win A Woman Over And Capture Her Heart

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Do you want to learn some killer dating tips and techniques on how to win a woman over?

Well, as hard as this task might seem, the truth is that it’s pretty simple, provided you know what you are doing.

Check out the following 7 tips and you will learn how to make a woman like you back, go out on dates with you, and ultimately make her all yours.  You may also want to read this Girlfriend Activation System V2 review for even more tips on getting a woman to commit to you fully both physically and emotionally.

1. Be a gentleman

Today, women find it hard to believe there are men who can be termed “gentlemen.” It is not easy being one.

Gentlemanly acts include being punctual and available at the appointed hour, opening and holding the doors for your woman (including car and house doors), helping your date to her chair before you sit, offering your arm when walking with her, and being prepared to pay the bills after a date’s meal.

2. Cultivate your sense of humor

couplelaughingWomen, specifically, love to laugh. You need to show your woman that you can bring joy and fun to her life. This means learning how to make her laugh more often.

Try some clever shots, rather than cheap comments, crude jokes or suggestive comments. Find some great things to do and new avenues to explore to help you bring fun into her life.  You’ll be able to appeal to her more, and she’ll be completely in love.

3. Groom like a pro

Believe it or not, women don’t like guys who look sloppy. Even that little belly fat may put her off.  So, before you even start thinking of winning a woman’s heart, you’ve got to deal with your own.

Hit the gym, dress nicely, smell great, be confident and enhance your overall value in her eyes.

4. Compliment her sincerely

Complimenting a woman is easy, but challenging. Every woman wants to feel beautiful about themselves. The problem is always how to come up with the right compliment.

Understand how she views herself and reinforce that. Always compliment her looks, including her smile, eyes, clothes, style, hair and lips.  Appreciate her physical, mental, spiritual and emotional attributes.

5. Show her that you are interested

Besides being interesting, you need to show your woman that you are interested. You are not going to show up in her life to take her for a friendly test drive. And again, she’s likely to sense it and it might make her feel unsafe.

So prior to pursuing, evaluate what you need to know about her and figure out if you are really drawn to her because it is going to help her trust you more.

6. Flirt with her

Step up a notch above the talks and compliments and show your woman what your game is all about.  In the process, be confident and visualize success to help you score the winning touchdown when flirting with her.

7. Touch her

This is the right time to break the touch barrier. Start touching her gently, but only on her safe, non- threatening areas.  You don’t want to be a creep.

This may include touching her hand lightly when making a point, touching the top of her shoulder when you want to draw her attention, or rubbing her back quickly when reassuring her about something.

Some women often feel threatened by this gesture and may pull away – a sign that you might have brought it a little too soon. However, if she doesn’t, then consider it a great success.

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How To Make Your Love Last: The Secrets To A Long-Lasting Relationship

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Perhaps, it’s like an eon ago, but can you still remember the feeling when you and your partner first started dating?  That magical time when you can never be separated and you can’t keep your hands off each other!

In fact, every time you were together, you can’t help yourself and end up making love.  Likewise, when you two aren’t together, you can’t stop thinking about each other and you miss the ‘other half’ a lot.  The moment you see each other again, it feels so exhilarating, your heart races, and you get butterflies in your stomach.

If you’re thinking that something is wrong with you, nothing is.

Truth be told, the rush you’re experiencing is because of the chemical hormones, such as dopamine, phenylethylamine (PEA), and norephinephrineare that are being released in your body.

This is also the reason why our hearts beat rapidly and we feel that we’re on cloud 9 whenever that special someone is around.  The kind of happiness we feel isn’t that much different than what junkies feel every time they do cocaine.

The Physiology of Love

Unfortunately, after 18 to 48 months, our body becomes immune to these wonderful chemicals.

The body produces another set of chemicals, like endorphins and oxytocin. These chemicals are similar to morphine.

They could reduce our anxiety and make us feel relaxed. However, we have to admit– our everyday life is a struggle– we need to deal with stress from work, home, children, and the list goes on.

This could be some of the reasons why the relationship is not as ‘fiery’ as it used to be.

Fortunately, there’s a good news! Keep the fire burning by following these steps.

Go out on dates

coupletalkingBeing married or getting older shouldn’t stop you from going out on dates. If you have kids, you could hire a babysitter to watch over them.  Enjoy the night, just like how you used to enjoy it during the courtship stage.

Keep in mind, being a father or mother doesn’t mean that you stopped being lovers. Yes, the kids should be one of your priorities, but you should also make your partner (and yourself) feel important every now and then.

Sex should always be exciting

Just like what the famous Dr. Phil said, “Use it or lose it.”

Physical intimacy is very essential in a relationship. Do what you want, speak up, and enjoy every moment of it. If you’re sexually satisfied and you feel that your partner needs you, this would give you a motivation to strengthen the ties.

Take a bath

According to a study made by the State of Dating in America, many relationships don’t last because of poor hygiene. Likewise, some relationships don’t even work at all because of this.

Come to think of it, would you be interested in spending the rest of your life with someone who smells bad and looks unappealing? Of course not.  That’s why we spend hours preparing for our date.

Also, if you’re already married, it’s not an excuse to neglect yourself. This would make you lose your appeal, and your partner might start looking for someone else.

Be spontaneous

Every day should be filled with excitement and surprises. Find new things that both of you enjoy.

Why not sign up for cooking classes, go on a taco crawl, or a wine tasting event. These are just some of the great ways to bond.

Be fit

Don’t be a couch potato.

It’s not an excuse that you already feel steady and there’s no need to continue being ‘vain.’ Ideally, you should always look like the person your partner fell in love with.

Be as attractive as possible and actually care about keeping yourself as healthy as possible. Lose weight if you gained some.

In short, stay irresistible.

Put some creativity in your sex life

Role play, try new positions, experiment with toys, do anything! No need to feel ashamed or embarrassed, speak out and do what you want.

Show appreciation at random times

No need to wait for a special occasion. Make your partner feel special everyday.

You can do this by giving little gifts whenever you can.  And just so you know, “gifts” doesn’t mean you have to go out and buy something.

You can show appreciation by doing little things like leaving them a sweet note, giving a foot massage, or even telling them you’ve got dishes this time and they should go sit down and relax.

60-second kisses

Most married couples only give each other pecks when leaving the house. Remember, you’re saying goodbye to your lover, not to your aunt.

Kiss her on the lips and show how much you love her.

Be naughty

Guys get visually aroused. Ladies, take advantage of it.  Whenever you go out on a date, do something naughty.

You can excuse yourself to the bathroom and remove your panties. When you go back, hand it to your man or just flash your beautiful flower!  Be discreet so you don’t let anyone else see.

As an alternative, when you excuse yourself and go to the bathroom, text your man something dirty about what you’d like to do to him after dinner.  If you need dirty talk ideas, Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire is an excellent resource.  You can learn more by reading this Language of Desire review.

Give what your partner needs

We saved the best for last. This is the most crucial thing in order to have a long-lasting relationship.  Likewise, it’s also one of the best ways to ensure that no matter what happens, you’ll always be there for each other.

You don’t need to follow all these steps. Though, if you can, try your best to incorporate some in your daily routine.  They are sure to keep the fire burning.

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How To Flirt Via Text – 4 Everyday Scenarios You Can Spice Up With Flirty Texts

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girlingrassreadingtext-660x350-reflectionText message are a very important mode of communication. These days, just about everyone communicates using texts unless you live completely off the grid.

Although texts are good modes of communication for almost all kinds of situations, they can go a long way to enhance relationships. There is no better way to communicate romantically other than using text messages.

They are fast, convenient and a fun way to flirt. It is however important to note that they can have a negative effect if you don’t proceed with care.

Before you start sending texts to a potential date, it is important to understand how to use texts effectively when flirting since a wrong approach can have a devastating effect.

One of the most important things to note is what kind of texter you are. It’s easy to discover what kind of texter you are by taking a quick look at your outbox.

Your focus should be assessing how your own texts make you feel. For instance, would you be excited to receive your own messages? Are they fun? Are they flirty? If your answer is yes to all these questions, you are in the right track.

Below are 4 common texting situations and how you can use flirty texts to get the most out of every interaction.

1. Saying hello

Hello texts are the most frequently sent texts in any language. They may take any form i.e. what’s up?  Hey you, how’s it going etc.

You should try adding some gist to set yourself apart. For instance, instead of texting what’s up, send something like:

  • What’s up beautiful/handsome.  Still turning heads everywhere you go?
  • Hey you! Stop pretending you don’t miss me

The aim here is to make your texts so unique, fun, and flirty at the same time that it becomes hard for your recipient to forget you.

2. Requesting a date/making plans

Another common texting reason is to ask for a date or to make plans. Most people fail in this situation by being too aggressive, eager, and plain.

You shouldn’t send plain texts if you want to set yourself apart.  You should ask indirectly. You should also avoid being too aggressive since it makes you look desperate and pushy.

Don’t focus on quick confirmations. If he or she doesn’t reply immediately don’t send another text.

Good examples of flirty texts for making plans include:

  • Where’d  you go?  Aliens get you again?
  • Hey there, I know you miss my company. My place, 7pm?
  • Come over and kiss me like you mean it.

You can always include smiley faces and winks at the end of your texts to make it more obvious you are flirting.

3. Let’s get it on

Texts are perfect for increasing sexual heat.  However, a poorly thought out text will have the opposite effect.

First and foremost, you need to know where your relationship stands. For instance, if you aren’t already having sex, don’t imply that you are when texting.

Be creative and play with words. Nothing too explicit or direct.

Examples include:

  • If you think I’m innocent, just wait until you get me behind closed doors. ;)
  • Think you’re man/woman enough to  handle me tonight? ;)
  • I’m coming over, but don’t you dare try to cuddle with me again.  I bite. ;)

4. Complimenting

Let’s face it! Everyone loves to be complimented provided it’s genuine.

To send flirty compliments when texting, personalize your compliments by adding your personality.  You can say something like:

  • You’re a goof.  That’s why I can’t let anyone else have you.
  • If you weren’t so damn cute, it’d be easier to say goodnight.

Learning how to flirt via text isn’t as difficult as it may seem.  Just remember, flirting should be FUN!  So infuse your messages with a little bit of personality, and you’re sure to leave a memorable and lasting impression.